all Iโm saying is that yes it might be draining & exhausting for you to be there & support the person you love who has BPD. however, trust me on this, it is 3000x MORE draining, exhausting & DEBILITATING for the person who has BPD. we donโt get a break. we canโt escape. trapped
having bpd be like i noticed the pitch in ur voice changed 0.001% slightly lower. a sudden lower voice pitch indicates you are upset with me. do you hate me? be honest
a bpd symptom i absolutely HATE is the lack of emotional permanence. no matter how many loving people i have in my life, the second they are gone it's like i was never loved and that it's all in my imagination but as soon as they come back, it's like i've never been sad