Never disrespect yourself by begging someone for bare minimum. You'll never have to ask the right person for affection, attention, respect, loyalty, or love. Because you're worth it and deserve it. If someone doesn't see the value in giving you that — don’t try to convince them.
nothing is sexier than a man that admits he wants you. sends you good morning and goodnight messages. replies fast, doesn’t leave you on read. shows you how much he wants you. gives you time, attention, and affection. who does anything to make you smile and only has eyes for you!
jumping from person to person because you lack affection won’t fix you in any way, shape, or form. the external validation you constantly look for won’t fill shit & you’ll end up in the same place again and again. stop being afraid to feel shit & learn to heal by being alone.
We glorify misery and pain as part of love. Yes, relationships are difficult. No, they shouldn’t break you down emotionally, leave you searching for breadcrumbs of affection, or have you wondering if you’re even together. Love is steady. Love is predictable.
you know what i’m realizing is important in a relationship. affection. the little touches on the waist and shoulders. neck kisses. fixing the hair. the way they look at you. they can’t keep their hands off of you. that’s such a huge part of romance.
